horrible journey i have ever encountered

Its horrible journey i have ever encountered in my life during the long weekend (15 to 17th Aug'08).
I booked a ticket 2 weeks before for this long weekend (Waiting list was around 375+), thought of getting cleared very easily as usual, but unfortunately this time, it doesn't get cleared and i didn't had even ticket printout too. I was trying somehow to get printout of E-ticket for more than a hour, site was very busy, not even able to check PNR Status too. It was almost 8pm, i thought lets leave office and get the ticket print out from Internet cafe, the one of my friend reminds me that IRCTC will send a copy of ticket to our email id too and unfortunately i didn't deleted that email, so finally i got my ticket in my rediffmail box.
Thanks to great IRCTC service.
Some how i started towards my home, there was a horrible traffic JAM as usual. Finally i got a CAB up to Ameerpet. i reached to Ameerpet then i was trying to get a AUTO for Begumpet,but no luck for 30 min.then i started walking to my home. after 45 min i reached to my home, and that day not even single autowala ready for coming to BEGUMPET.
I had a peaceful dinner, then did a packing and started towards Secunderabad station. On the way to station, it remind me that, waiting list e-ticket is redundant. You can't even travel with it, not even in a general compartment. It will cancel automatically and you will get refund afterward.
I returned back from station, and again started next day morning to station. Day is 15th August. There was a horrible rush, a queue of about 500 people and my train time was 6.50 am , just only 20 mins left. I can't even think of standing in a BIG queue and get the ticket. I called my mom for what to do now? shall i cancel my trip? Mom said,just try once. Then i just came 2 meter inside to check train timings again. Suddenly one of TC caught me for illegal traveler. He was asking me 350 Rs. There was a BIG argument on it. finally some how i convinced him that, and he said just give 100 Rs. i agreed upon it and told him that i just came inside to check timings and nothing else. He convinced on the same and promised that he will be giving me my train ticket in spite of such a BIG queue. Then i gave him 100 Rs plus 96 Rs for train ticket. Finally i got into sleeper class train and reached home at around 1.30 pm.
while returning, my ticket was not confirmed. and i came to know that its in RAC after coming to station, so i become just relaxed. "Some thing is better than nothing", since i have to go to office next day morning. After reaching ballarshah station, one gal came and told that she is also having RAC on the same birth.
God knows how i manage to travel entire night with HER :). now i am still suffering from full of body pains...!!. literally traveling with a Lady in RAC situation is quite horrible

Tips for Better life...

1. Take a 10-30 minutes walk every day. And while you walk, smile.
2. Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day.
3. Sleep for 7 hours.
4. Live with the 3 E's -- Energy, Enthusiasm, and Empathy.
5. Play more games.
6. Read more books than you did in 2007.
7. Make time to practice meditation, yoga, and prayer. They provide us with daily fuel for our busy lives.
8. Spend time with people over the age of 70 & under the age of 6.
9. Dream more while you are awake.
10. Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants and eat less food that is manufactured in plants.
11. Drink plenty of water.
12. Try to make at least three people smile each day.
13. Don't waste your precious energy on gossip.
14. Forget issues of the past. Don't remind your partner with his/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness.
15. Don't have negative thoughts or things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment.
16. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn. Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.
17. Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a beggar.
18. Smile and laugh more.
19. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don't hate others.
20. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
21. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
22. Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present.
23. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about. Don't compare your partner with others.
24. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.
25. Forgive everyone for everything.
26.. What other people think of you is none of your business.
27. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
28. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch.
29. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.
30. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
31. The best is yet to come.
32. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
33. Do the right thing!
34. Call your family often.
35. Your inner most is always happy. So be happy.
36. Each day give something good to others.
37. Don't over do. Keep your limits.

29 mail replies with 3 meetings...!!

Today i replied to 29 mails, one of the worst day in my S/W job, i have ever encounter with 3 meetings. not all of them are official, but still its a little bit crazy thing happened for me today..!!!
Days are changed so suddenly that i couldn't even noticed...When i started my career in IT, i used to worked on amazing technology where i can find interest and full satisfaction. but now it become so horrible that, i need to find a way to switch it back to it.

Shaadi... a BIG search out..!!!

Searching a Navra for my sister is great journey.
It started with jeevansangini.com, where we used to get a list of 'Navaras' on a monthly basis. This is started by my dad, and used to contact a people from it.
Then we registered with reshimbandh. This site is simply horrible, where most of the people are married or going to married and don't want to give any reply to the contacting person. Later on i tried to contact them thru calls, found crazy..!!
I don't know how to tackle this...Now once i registered with jeevansathi.com and forgotten too..And suddenly i came to know that they introduces a gmail chat facility, where you can first make yourselves visible in chat, then people will chat with you and its free of cost :).No need to become paid member. Now i am applying this strategy, lets see how it works :) and thank to technology...

God plz help me...and gimme a good option asap..!!!