21 June, 2009

what will be my life after my sister's marriage?



My mumma, thinking of what I will do after my sister's marriage?
I never seen her so much tense, but she never showed me any sign of it...! that's the mom is..! I am perplexed..Am i doing right? i don't want to hurt anyone..that's what i did till now and will do till the end..I am lacking in balancing the things, but still learning it...! Don't know what gonna happen..!

for a person who doesnt care for other's calls ..! How can they care a person..?

I don't know ki why some people in life are so crazy, doesn't even bother about somebody calling, need to call back or SMS at least. I know everybody is busy in their life with something or someone will have their own issues to be solved on high priority..but it doesn't meant that they stop talking with others. Sometimes calling might help in solving their own problems , but some people are so lazy , some are definitely Kanjoosh, they don't wanna spend their money..
But think about the people when they call you at certain moment, it may be a day or night, doesn't matter, the time they call you, wanted to tell something,wanted to share something good to make you happy or bad to share their sorrow. it you don't care of it, then you are not being a part of it...!!
Sometime people will think, just talking over a phone doesn't help so they ignored, but they cant even think of the other options to...so much of lazy people...!
bottom line is: if you care for a person, they will care you more, otherwise its just a compromise in life...Point here is why to make compromise, if we can try to do something to make our life better.

The reason for writing such a blog at this moment is making me think for a while, i could have been written this blog long time back, but one bad experience happened yesterday, made me crazy to write it now
One of my best friend in VJTI suddenly called me after a long time, he thought of calling to other friend who is also my best friend in VJTI, but the height here is he save my number with his name..! and this call was just like a luck for me , is this means m i so crazy for waiting his call? he talked with me not for a more than 5 min, might be he need to rush away due to some imp things. after this, he called to my other friend and talking like he wanted to meet and will be there in mumbai for 1 hour only, so wanna meet? as if he is like PM and dont have a time for friend now,even after spending 4 years together...! then blah blah....
My other friend asked him why you are not calling ..he told some bullshit reason like his life is with "some rough patches from last 3 years"...see such a nice reason..! it means our life is so amazing without any patches...! if you dont have reason then dont tell anything, but it doesnt mean you tell the reason like this....!

SO IN WHICH CATEGORY YOU BELONG...?...!